I'll take a minute to explain an above comment further...
I haven't needed to play with headphones that have a microphone but still only use the 3.5 mm jack.
But, I believe their jacks are different.
Your standard stereo headset will have three connections. One would be a ground and then you'd have one connection each for the left and right channels.
The 3.5 mm jack can also have four connections. It has the three mentioned and then an additional contact point for the microphone. I've taken the liberty of finding one of them on Amazon to demonstrate this:
When on said page, look at the male part of the jack. You'll see that it has four points of contact.
What I do not know is how these jacks work - that is those that also support a mic on the same jack. I haven't dug into it at this time as I'm not sure it matters.
But, if this is the case, could the people who designed the 3.5 mm jack (the one that supports the microphone) have not considered compatibility with the existing standard?
Is it possible that those jacks will only play a single channel's worth of audio if they don't have those four points of contact?
Further, would a laptop vendor only include a jack with those limitations/frustrations?
Those are questions that I don't have answers for. I simply see a string that you can pull on if you'd like.
If you have a 'gamer' buddy/neighbor, they probably have one of those headsets with the mic incorporated into it. You can borrow it from them and see if it makes a difference.
We do have some gamers here. Perhaps they can opine.